Dec 25, 2010

How To Show A Girl You Love Her

It is always difficult to show your deepest feelings when it comes to your loved ones, and if it is a girl that you love, it becomes even more intricate. Undoubtedly, a simple ‘I love you’ can flatter a girl in many cases, but it may not be the same with every girl. Every woman likes surprises, and what is better than surprising her with a love note. Nonetheless, those three magical words have no significance if you don’t do things that corroborate your words as it is well said that ‘Action speaks louder than words’. Scroll down to find ways that can show the depth of your love for her.

How to Express Your Love to a Girl

Don’t Say It; Show It - A straightforward approach is the best one, though it won’t help much unless it is reflected in your actions. Helping her with small things will show that you really care for her. At this point of time, don’t give hints deliberately, she might not be ready for this and find it vile or contemptible.

Keep It Real - Evaluate and reevaluate your feelings for her. It might be an infatuation or a natural attachment with a friend that you have mistaken for love. Before uttering something sweet and beautiful to her, be sure of your feelings. Don’t try to fool her with emotional one liner.

Go Slowly - Don’t forget the golden rule of patience. Before going for something big, strengthen your basic relation that is your friendship. You can’t love some body, you don’t respect or care for. Show your care and respect her feelings by supporting her in the toughest of the time. This will establish a bond between the two of you.

Dec 16, 2010

11 Secrets Men Don't Know About Women


1. Women don't like explosions, in art or in life.
2. Women aren't as funny as men. We're often cleverer, frequently wittier, but to be really funny demands a certain clownishness that our grace just does not allow. It's fine, really it is.
3. We grow pathetic goatees and look awful in cargo shorts anyway.
4. Women are aware of about 10 percent of the things men actually think and say about us. Best to keep it under five.
5. Women love to be taken out to eat. It makes our day.

Dec 15, 2010

3 Things That Only Feel Like Love

Love is a tricky emotion. There are some things that feel like love but they are much too superficial to be the real thing. Real love takes time and doesn't happen over night. Here are three things that people often confuse for love.

Lust

Lust is the feeling that is often mistaken for love at first sight. Lust is an intense and sudden attraction to somebody you hardly know. It is mistaken for love because the attraction is so strong.
Lust can feel like love because the feelings of attraction are strong and all-consuming. The emotions stirred up by lust can feel very real but they are based on a fantasy. To love somebody you must know them well but many people fall in lust while they are still strangers. What people in lust fall for is a fantasy of what might be and reality can get lost in the excitement.
Overwhelmed by physical attraction people in lust can't keep their hands off of each other. They think about each other constantly and talk about one another all the time. Lust is a happy feeling brought on by passionate attraction. If you are inexperienced in matters of the heart it is very easy to mistake all that passion for love.
Lust differs from love like night differs from day. Lust happens in the early phase of a relationship when people don’t yet know each other. Lust is based on a fantasy, and the fantasy and reality don’t always mesh up. This is where lust runs out of steam.